Everybody has a different personality and history. Some people are very good at getting work done and some aren’t, some people love to go to parties and some don’t, some people are always happy and positive and some people aren’t. There are so many different personalities, but why? Why is it that although everyone is made the same way, everyone is so different from each other? When you stop and think about, it starts to make sense. This blog post is about what makes personalities and what you can do to give yourself the best traits.
When you were first born, you didn’t know how to do much of anything (besides cry). When you were first born you didn’t have much of a personality yet, you still had to build it. Personalities are built on choices and decisions. When you are an infant, you hadn’t made almost any choices, and therefore hadn’t built your personality. As you got older you were forced to make more and more decisions, building your personality more and more. Every decision you have made and will make will slightly change your personality. If you make many different decisions then you will become a very different person. Did you know that many famous actors and movie stars were once afraid of being on a stage or being filmed, but once they started making decisions to act and film even when they were scared, they built personality traits that allowed them to act and film themselves with no fear?
Every choice you make can change you completely. With the ability to change yourself so easily though, you must be careful. When you make a bad decision it can affect your personality badly. One way to think of it is a tree. When you are an infant, you are at the bottom of the tree, but once you make your first decisions, you branch off onto one of the branches. Which branch you go to is based on what decision you make. After that first branch, there are more branches that branch out of the branch you are on. You are forced to make another decision and go to one on those branches. You keep doing this until you made it to the end, the top of the tree, a leaf. As you can see, the first decisions you make, are the most important ones because they change the rest of your decisions.
Because of all of these things, you need to make good decisions. Not only do you need to make good decisions, but you need to make them now. I want you to sign up for something that you are afraid of doing. Do something that will make you a better person. Build better work ethics, become more fit. Why is it that we only tell our selves to do these things on new years or birthdays? You should be telling yourself these things every single day. So go and become a better person! Live the best life possible! Good Luck!